Loss of self esteem can occur any time and causes many problems in your life. Self Esteem is the value of your own self or your self worth.  Having low self esteem can cause you to lose your life’s goals and even interest in your life in general.

Gaining back your self esteem is the first step to a happy and satisfied life. Rebuilding self esteem helps by giving a boost to your self confidence. Being confident will make others give you the respect you deserve which in turn will enable you to respect yourself. But also having respect for yourself can give you the respect of others. It helps in building successful and happy relationships and motivate you to go for what you want to achieve in life.

Here are are few quick tips to help you build your self-esteem:

Be aware of the nature and type of the problem. You should try to look at the problem in a positive ways. Don’t just sit and feel sorry for yourself. Instead face the problem with a positive approach. Consider developing a mentality that the problem was a chance for improvement. This well helps you to lay the foundation of self-esteem.

Discover your potential and capabilities. Begin by acquiring more information about yourself.  Having a good understanding of yourself is an important but often overlooked part of life.

Find your potential of handling things and situations. Ask others what you are good at doing. Then ask them what they feel your weaknesses are. Then use this as a basis to improve yourself.

Accept responsibilities and don’t run away from them. Strive to develop a positive approach towards your roles and responsibilities. Your mantra could be something like “If I’m entrusted with responsibility, I will follow it whole-heartedly”. This approach helps a lot towards self-development.

Have a positive approach towards any mistakes you make. You should view mistakes as opportunities to develop yourself. A mistake should be seen as a chance to grow.  Own and rectify any mistakes you have made.

These tips are a good start to developing your self-esteem by allowing you to take action and put them to use.


Article Author: Smiljan Mori is the founder of MindOver™ Network, Brilliant solutions for Performance, Motivation and Happiness. He is also the creator of Big U Academy, , the Kitepreneur NetworkTM and Kitepreneur Lifestyle Academy. He has literally created a successful business and coaching empire from scratch and is a best-selling author and motivational speaker who brings unparalleled professional experience and the latest scientific research from neuroscience and positive psychology to audiences around the globe. He has shown more than 150,000 people from 50 countries how to change their lives for the better.

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